For men over 50

The 28-Day Pelvic Floor Plan for Men 50+

Three short guided sessions a day to find, train and relax your pelvic floor, an evening routine for night trips, and a companion plan for lasting longer. The research behind it is cited, with its limits stated.

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Two books, 12 audio tracks and a printable tracker pack. One-time payment. 30-day money-back guarantee.

The 28-Day Pelvic Floor Plan, The Control Plan and the printable 28-day calendar

Why most Kegel advice does not work for men over 50

"Squeeze as if you were stopping your stream" is where most advice starts and stops. Three things go wrong.

  1. The wrong muscles do the work

    Most men clench the buttocks, pull in the belly or hold their breath. It feels like effort and trains almost nothing. The plan starts with a 60-second check that teaches you to feel the right lift.

  2. Squeezing a floor that is already tight

    Some men have the opposite problem: a pelvic floor that never lets go, which can go along with pelvic discomfort, urgency or a hesitant start. Squeezing harder makes it worse. A self-check sends you to the relaxation track first.

  3. Practice that never reaches real life

    Lying on the bed doing sets is only the start. Control matters when you cough, stand up, feel a sudden urge or finish at the toilet. The plan teaches the knack, the urge-control routine and the after-dribble squeeze for those moments, and week 4 moves practice into daily tasks.

Man lying on his back with knees bent and a hand on his lower belly, the week 1 position
Week 1 starts lying down, where the muscles are easiest to feel.

Four weeks, one skill at a time

  1. Week 1

    Learn the movement

    Lying down, where the muscles are easiest to feel. Five short holds and five quick flicks, three times a day, with a full release in between.

  2. Week 2

    Practice sitting

    The same dose in a chair, the position you spend most of your day in, with each session tied to something you already do.

  3. Week 3

    Add standing

    At a kitchen counter, against gravity. Holds grow to five seconds, eight at a time, and you learn not to brace.

  4. Week 4

    Use it in daily life

    Ten holds of eight seconds, with the midday set done during a simple task such as waiting for the kettle. Day 28 is for review.

On the relaxation track you start with reverse Kegel breathing, and add gentle holds from week 3 only if your symptoms stay calm.

What is inside the plan

  • Start today in 5 minutes

    A one-page quick start: find the muscle with Track 1, answer three questions to pick your track, and do your first session tonight.

  • Your pattern

    One page for each quiz result: night trips, a weaker stream, firmness, lasting longer and leaks after urinating. Where to start, what to track, when a doctor visit is worth it.

  • The 60-second check

    How to find the right muscles, and the five most common ways men get it wrong.

  • The four tools

    Slow holds, quick flicks, the Knack with the after-dribble squeeze, and the Reverse Kegel with breathing, each with its own audio track.

  • The evening routine

    Fluid timing, caffeine and alcohol, legs up for ankle swelling, and a calm last visit before bed.

  • After prostate surgery or radiation

    How to start gently, what the research on leakage after surgery shows, and what to ask your care team first.

  • Weeks 5 to 12

    The studies behind the plan ran about three months, so the book takes you there: fewer days, the same skill, and a week-12 review.

  • When it is not working

    Fourteen common situations, what to change, and when to ask for a pelvic floor physical therapist.

Quick start page of the plan, on a dark green page
Start today in 5 minutes
Week 3 opening page with the day's session box
Week 3, with today's session
Page of The Control Plan with the stop-start graph
The Control Plan: stop-start
Printable 28-day calendar with three tick boxes per day
The printable 28-day calendar

What the research says, without the hype

These are the studies the plan builds on. Each one tested its own program in its own group of men, and none tested this exact 28-day schedule. Your results may differ.

Firmness

In a randomised trial of 55 men with erection problems, three months of pelvic floor exercises with biofeedback improved erectile function compared with lifestyle advice alone.

That program was supervised and used biofeedback equipment. A home plan cannot promise the same effect.

Dorey and colleagues, British Journal of General Practice, 2004. PubMed 15527607

Leakage after surgery

A meta-analysis of trials in men after prostate removal found pelvic floor muscle exercise improved some measures of urinary leakage.

The trials differed in method and length, so they cannot predict your own recovery.

Wu and colleagues, Asian Journal of Andrology, 2019. PubMed 30409959

Dribble after urinating

A study of men with dribbling after urination tested pelvic floor exercises against a manual technique to clear the last drops.

The plan teaches both, so you can use whichever works for you.

Paterson and colleagues, British Journal of Urology, 1997. PubMed 9202555

Is it for you?

It fits if you

  • get up at night, dribble after you finish or leak when you cough or stand
  • notice less firmness or less control than a few years ago
  • had prostate surgery and your team agrees you can train
  • want to last longer, with exercises you can practice alone first
  • want a clear daily routine at home, with a voice that counts for you

See a doctor first if you have

  • blood in your urine, burning or pain when you urinate, or fever
  • trouble passing urine at all, or a sudden change in your stream
  • new leakage with back pain or leg weakness

Those need an examination, and an exercise plan is the wrong tool for them.

What to expect, honestly

Man pouring a glass of water in his kitchen at dusk, with a notebook on the counter

In the first two weeks most men learn to find the muscles and to let them go, which is a result in itself. Changes in leaks, night trips or firmness, when they come, usually take longer: the programs in the studies ran for about three months.

That is why the plan carries on to week 12, and why the tracker matters. It shows you what is changing, and it is the best thing to bring to your doctor if nothing does.

Everything you get today

Bought one at a time, these sell for $105. Together they are $19, once.

  1. The 28-Day Pelvic Floor Plan

    The main program: a 72-page screen book with a one-page quick start, a page for your pattern, the four tools, four weeks day by day, and weeks 5 to 12.

    $37

  2. The Control Plan

    A 55-page companion for lasting longer: the arousal scale, release under arousal, the control hold, stop-start and a 6-week schedule.

    $27

  3. The Coach: 12 guided audio tracks

    A calm voice counts every hold and release for each week, plus urge control, the evening wind-down and the Knack. With an on-screen timer and a 28-day calendar on your phone.

    $29

  4. The Printable Tracker Pack

    A 28-day tick calendar for each track, four weekly grids, a 3-day bladder diary and six tool cards to keep beside you.

    $12

Separately $105

Today $19 one-time, no subscription

Get everything for $19

For comparison, the best-known Kegel apps for men charge by subscription, about $30 a month after the first. Here you pay once and keep it all.

Get the plan

The 28-Day Pelvic Floor Plan for Men 50+

$105 $19 one-time. No subscription.

The plan, The Control Plan, 12 audio tracks with the Coach and the tracker pack. Access link by email right after payment.

At checkout you can add two short guides. Both are optional.

  • The Prostate-Friendly Kitchen, $9. 21 one-page breakfasts, lunches and dinners built on the Mediterranean pattern, with prep time, estimated nutrients and a shopping list.
  • The Appointment Playbook, $7. What to bring, the 10 questions to ask and the usual tests in plain words, for your next prostate or urology visit.

30-day money-back guarantee. If the plan is not useful to you, email us within 30 days for a full refund. No questions.

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Questions

How do I get everything?

Right after payment, Hotmart, our checkout partner, emails you an access link to the books and the tracker pack. The books are made for reading on a phone or tablet; the tracker pack is for printing. The thank-you page and the plan link to your Coach, where the audio tracks and the timer live. Nothing to install.

How much time does it take?

Three short sessions a day: about 4 minutes in total in weeks 1 and 2, about 6 in week 3 and about 10 in week 4. The audio tracks count for you. On a busy day, fewer repetitions with good form beat a rushed full set.

Do I need any equipment?

No. A chair, a bed or a mat, and your phone for the audio tracks.

Who is The Control Plan for?

Men whose main goal is lasting longer. It builds on the daily plan with arousal awareness, release, the control hold and stop-start over 6 weeks, practiced alone first. If timing changed recently, or comes with erection problems, see your doctor too.

I had prostate surgery or radiation. Can I use it?

There is a chapter for you that starts gently. Ask your surgeon or care team before you begin, especially if you still have a catheter or were told to avoid exercise.

Will it shrink my prostate or treat BPH?

No. It trains the pelvic floor muscles and the bladder habits around them. It does not change the size of the prostate and does not replace medical care or prescribed medication.

Is this a subscription?

No. You pay $19 once and keep the books, the tracker pack and the audio tracks. Nothing renews.

What happens to my quiz answers?

They stay with Stark Verve to send your result and related emails. We do not send them to advertising platforms. The privacy policy has the details, and you can ask us to delete them at any time.

What if it is not for me?

Email us within 30 days and you get a full refund. You do not need to give a reason.

Get my plan for $19

This plan is education and training, not medical treatment. It does not diagnose, treat or prevent any disease. Results vary from man to man. Talk to your doctor about any urinary or sexual symptom, and never stop a prescribed treatment because of it.